Backyard update: The Wall!

6/29/11

My fingers are healing up nicely and my back only feels like it might give-out every other time I blend over, so I figured I should post photos. I still can't type with my right middle finger though, so this is going to take a while.

Marc's dad and I originally dug up all this concrete that was lining our yard.  We stacked it neatly in the back thinking: "Hey, could we maybe use this somewhere?" In the next week, both Marc and I separately found the same inspiration photo in a Garden Design magazine by Shirley Watts:

Hmmm. She used reclaimed concrete and stacked it with wide joints. Looks great!

First things first though, Marc had to pour the concrete footings. That was no small job: +30 bags of concrete mixed in the wheelbarrow by hand!
Bad thing #1: The finish wasn't what we were expecting, it was way too rough, so Marc had to parge the front of the wall to make it look smooth.
Bad thing #2: The bag of parging cement he picked up said "concrete white" but was more like stark white. Can we not get a break?? Looks like he will have to re-parge it with a grey mix. Bummer.

Anyway, once the wall footing was in we started on our reclaimed concrete wall. Hold up, nothing is that easy for us, right? Well, first I had to unstack all the "stones" (i.e. reclaimed concrete chunks) and lay them out in the yard to get a good sense of what we had and then hose the dirt and bugs off of them. This took me half a day I swear.

Finally, we started stacking and mortaring. After 2 HARD days of work, and me wearing right thru a pair of gloves, we did it. I'm pretty amazed at how it looks considering that we have never really done anything like this before. I'm not saying the Fraternal Order of Mason's should give us honorary memberships but yea, we feel pretty proud:

The whole wall. 2" of the white (soon-to-be-grey) footing will be covered with the final gravel layer.
A little close-up. Some of the pieces still have moss on them. We are hoping it will live and spread.
Not too bad for junk we dug up in the yard, right?


It's a little more rustic looking than the inspiration photo, but Marc and I really like it. It didn't come easily though. As with everything that will save you a lot of $$ (in not having to buy new stone), it took a little more man-power. These rocks had very rough bottoms (hence the need for the large mortar layers in between). They look like they were formed on CMU (concrete blocks). Here is a picture of the bumps <--

This one isn't even that bad, but it is the last one that we didn't use. I was going to turn it over to get a better photo, but Marc had stacked (3) 80lb concrete bags on top of it, so this is the only photo. Sorry, I just cannot bring myself (and my aching back) to move the 240lbs off and back required to get a better shot!

Here's an update on the list. 13 & 15 completed!
  1. Tear up patio area. (Done!)
  2. "Reclaim" stone/concrete pieces to reuse. (Done!)
  3. Relocate plants. (Done!)
  4. Install gutters (Back is 95% Done!)
  5. Bust up concrete "troughs". (Done!)
  6. "Reclaim" patio flooring flagstones from garden. (Done!)
  7. Mark fence posts.
  8. Get samples and select pea gravel. (Done!)
  9. Rent equipment. (Done!)
  10. Move dirt. (Done!)
  11. Dig post holes.
  12. Trench for pipe and footing at new site wall and house.
  13. Pour footing. (Done!)
  14. Install metal edging. (Done!)
  15. Install site wall reclaimed stone/concrete pieces. (Done!)
  16. Place road bond gravel. (Done!)
  17. Compact gravel. (Done!)
  18. Lay reclaimed flooring flagstones.
  19. Install pea gravel.
  20. Install trench drains.
  21. Install fence posts and fence.

We've found some really gross stuff in and around this house (dead cats #1, #2, #3 & #4, adult diapers ....), so I thought I'd post something a little gross, but a lot funny.
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Marc dug up this troll doll in the backyard. He's become our unofficial patio mascot. Partly because he's pretty cute, but mostly because that is what we end up looking like after each work session!

Should we name him? Suggestions?

Patio Update - Coming Soon

6/27/11

It hurts to type right now.
Oh and it hurts to sit, stand, lay down and/or breathe. Which is a sure sign of patio progress.
Also is that I got up at 1am because MY FINGER was hurting so bad I couldn't sleep. Seriously.

Here is a little teaser photo:
I may have moved all these concrete 'stones' 5 times in order to have them create the new wall.  (There were even more. I took this photo after Marc had already scavenged about 15 of them.)


Pretty amazing that we dug all of these out of our yard! It is practically enough to pave our backyard. Some of them were just buried under grass. Sure beats forking over the $$ to buy stone.


**Also a big Congratulations to my friend Michelle at So Wonderful, So Marvelous. She and her family welcomed a new little member this morning!****

Marc's Bad Habit

6/22/11

[I'm in the middle of cleaning the house because I woke up this morning and just couldn't stand the chaos anymore. There is one thing about living in a messy, dirty-ish house under renovation, but it is a whole 'nother monster to spend your day looking at it and living among it. But there is something I just had to share.]

I've been known to have a bad habit of leaving some of my 73 (!) pairs of shoes all over the house. It drives Marc nuts.  He has a little-discussed bad habit of his own, let's take a look, shall we??

Door #1
Bedroom
1 shirt on door knob

Door #2
Office
1 shirt on door knob

Door #3
Guest Room
5 shirts on door

Door #4
Guest Bedroom
4 shirts on door
1 hoodie  on door
2 shirts on dresser

Total:
13 shirts
1 hoodie

Hmmm.
Looks like I'm not the only slob living here.

[Ok, now back to dusting!]


6/16/11

Remember when it was all cute when Franca would play in the bathroom under the sink? Well, fast forward five months to now when I'm constantly finding my face lotion behind the toilet, my spray gel under her crib and my hair barrettes downstairs in her highchair (!?).

It was time for a bathroom shelf.

I had asked Marc probably 3 years ago to build me a bathroom wall cabinet. I did sketches and everything. I got sick of waiting and insisted I would do it myself. No. He wants to do it! But if he did everything I asked him to, he'd never have time to sleep, so I decided to just put up a shelf we already had***.

Bathroom "storage" before:
Huge mess and WAY too kid-accessible.

Bathroom storage areas after:
I want to get some baskets for this TP to tidy it up a bit more.
And let's face it, otherwise, one day I will walk in and 1/2 of these rolls will be unfurled on the floor.


I mounted the shelf at 6'-3" off finish floor so Marc wouldn't hit his head, but so that I can still easily reach my junk.
TADA!


Oh who am I kidding? 
It looks like this now: 
<---------toilet paper, toy and sports bra storage, of course! Wonder which little lingerie obsessed munchkin has already taken this area over?

Seriously, now do I have to put up a high shelf in my closet to hide my sports bras from her?




***Footnote: 
This bathroom shelf has a funny back-story. Marc bought it 9 or so odd years ago when he lived with a roommate (also named Mark) in Hoboken. Well, Marc bought this shelf to put up in their bathroom because he had nowhere to put his toiletries. Being very roommate-y, Marc asked Mark if he could put it up. Mark replied that he'd "think about it". Marc would ask Mark every couple of months and they reply would be he was "still thinking about it". 

Please note: I love this Mark to death.  Trust me, he is a fabulous guy. Smart, witty, fun and now married to Marc's cousin (!), but he is nothing if not slow to decide. (He dated Marc's cousin for 7 years or so before finally popping the question for pete's sake!) He was not being mean or passive aggressive with his "thinking about it". He was literally "thinking about it" the whole time!

Needless to say, the shelf never went up. 

An additional funny part is that when I went to get the parts to put the shelf up together, I noticed that the shelf is only 7" wide, but the directions for the brackets state that it should be 11" wide. (This actually works for me because I like that the shelf doesn't go all the way to the wall. No "dead space" for things to hide up there.) But it just cracks me up that all those years in Hoboken, the shelf sat in Marc's closet waiting to be put up. If Mark would have ok'd it, Marc would have discovered that he picked up the wrong shelf and it wouldn't even have been correct! HA!!!

Weekend 2: Patio (or My 6,000 Calorie Diet)

6/12/11

I'd like to proudly announce, we kicked the patio's arse this weekend!
We seriously got so much done (and currently I hear Marc mixing concrete), it is hard to believe that it was only 1.5 days!

We worked so fiercely I found it hard to keep myself fed. I seriously could NOT eat enough! I would eat a ton and still go to bed hungry. I guess that is what happens when you work so intensely in 85-90 degree heat. So, the money we are saving doing this ourselves is probably going to feed me. ;)

Thursday, Marc went to Home Depot before work and got (20) 80lb bags of concrete. He lifted 4,800lbs that day. (1,600lbs getting bags onto skid, 1,600lbs getting into truck and 1,600lbs unloading.) Wow!

Friday, Franca and I picked up another load of road bond gravel mix because we ran out of it last weekend. We only got 1 cubic yard, which is recommended to haul in Marc's truck, but it still was a harrowing ride back to the house from the stone yard. Marc's truck was riding low, so I unloaded about 1/5 of the gravel.
That night, I fell asleep hungry watching hockey on the couch and woke up at 10pm still starving. So I said, what the hell, and got a butterfinger blast and chili-cheeseburger from Sonic. Happy me.

Saturday, Marc made Franca breakfast and then Franca and I set off on a 4.5 mile run with my friend Robin. Maybe not the best thing to do when you have a whole day of back-breaking work ahead of you. Plus, whew! when did Franca get so heavy? We switched off pushing the jogging stroller and it was still brutal! When we got home, I helped Marc finish installing and leveling the last of the road bond. Then, I decided to tackle the "stone garden area" (that we had thought of on-the-fly) while Marc laid out the string lines for the walls. In the afternoon, I decided to tackle the huge dirt mounds near the alley while Marc made the forms for the concrete footing/wall.

We hired a friend's daughter to babysit from 1-3pm which is usually right between Franca's naps. Well of course, she boycotted her morning nap and fell asleep promptedly at 1pm right as I heard the babysitter's car door slam. Little shit. (She did wake up and had to be tended to later though.)

Saturday night I had to work-work. I had to practically stick my head into the computer in order to stay motivated to pump cad and figure out scales for touchable models. I kept myself motivated with chocolate ice cream. Yum.

Sunday, I convinced Marc to head to Corner Stone Diner for breakfast bright and early at 7am, because he had to got to Home Depot at 8am anyway. When we got home I continued to shovel dirt (OMG, I'm a wheelbarrow expert now), while Marc continued on the concrete forms and rebar. Later in the afternoon, because it was too hot for pouring concrete, Marc helped me lay the stone wall at the alley, and dig out and lay the stone at the walk from that alley to the house. Of course, right when the temperature dropped and Marc opened a bag of concrete, it started to rain. So we headed to Marcos' Pizza for dinner.

So here I sit, motivating myself to start on the work-work again, with the sounds of concrete pouring behind me. I snuck downstairs and took of photo of Marc in action.
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Here's an update on the list. Ridiculous that we only checked one official thing off, but I'll let the photos speak for all the work we got done.
  1. Tear up patio area. (Done!)
  2. "Reclaim" stone/concrete pieces to reuse. (Done!)
  3. Relocate plants. (Done!)
  4. Install gutters (Back is 95% Done!)
  5. Bust up concrete "troughs". (Done!)
  6. "Reclaim" patio flooring flagstones from garden. (Done!)
  7. Mark fence posts.
  8. Get samples and select pea gravel. (Done!)
  9. Rent equipment. (Done!)
  10. Move dirt. (Done!)
  11. Dig post holes.
  12. Trench for pipe and footing at new site wall and house.
  13. Pour footing. (underway)
  14. Install metal edging. (Done!)
  15. Install site wall reclaimed stone/concrete pieces.
  16. Place road bond gravel. (Done!)
  17. Compact gravel. (Done!)
  18. Lay reclaimed flooring flagstones.
  19. Install pea gravel.
  20. Install trench drains.
  21. Install fence posts and fence.
Here are the photos:
Shot taken from the alley. Notice the new rock edge wall, walkway, rock garden and completed "road bond". This whole area slopes much more than the photo shows.
 Here is the rock garden. We just wanted to switch it up so the whole area wasn't gravel. Plus, the smoker and grill will be in the further gravel area and Marc wanted them segratated a little from the walking area. We did put two "step stones" in the rock garden so you can quickly get out of the BBQ area. Did I mention that I salvaged, hauled and placed every single one of those stones by myself? OMG. I've got to be getting guns by now.
Here is a detail of the walkway. If you only knew how hard this was to dig up. It slopes down from the patio into the alley and the stuff that was there was IMPOSSIBLE. The old owner used to park her cars there, so she had filled the area in with whatever hard material she could find: hunks of broken concrete, large rocks, whole bricks, broken pottery.  Nothing is worse than forcefully slamming a shovel into the ground to have it hit a full brick. It's jarring. At one point, Marc said he was digging individual gravel pieces out. 
This stuff is so hard, that we decided we don't even need to put the road bond there. It is just as good.

And here are the concrete forms. You can also see all the concrete tucked neatly under the green tarp and out of the rain. Don't ask me about the rebar, Marc explained it to me and it made sense, but I promptly forgot all he said.

Side note:
Franca is obsessed with my closet. Namely, my sports bras.
I was trying to get Marc to take a pic of how dirty I was, but Franca had to be in the photo and was, of course, wearing a sports bra around her neck. She normally wears at least two.
Weird, weird little girl.

It will be pouring concrete and moving forms all week here!

Weekend 1: Patio

6/6/11

It was hot.
It was sweaty.
I **may** have gotten irrationally angry a couple of times.

But it is at about 50% and it feels so good!

Day 1:
Thanks to our contractor neighbor Chris, we got this baby generally leveled in no time!

I started to install the edging. Near the house will be a planting bed.

Day 2:
Gravel is at about 85% in. We are running a little short, but that is actually a happy accident because I thought the gravel area was getting too big. 

 So we are going to improvise and do a "planting" bed with the larger round stones we salvaged from elsewhere around the garden. It will be located in the foreground here.

And the fun stuff:
One of the main reasons I'm so excited to have our backyard more "finished", is that Franca is quit the outdoorsy girl. She loves to get right in there and get dirty. She leaps out of my arms whenever I take her out back (or out front for that matter).
Country girl, just like her momma!

She was also fascinated by the Bobcat. When we were done yesterday, we let her sit on it with Marc. She went nuts and didn't want to get off. 
[I get a weird feeling some people might give me shit for this, but the Bobcat was turned off, key out, and on level ground. I mean, I grew up riding through pastures in the raised bucket of my Grandpa's tractor!]

I can't believe that we didn't get a photo of me on it. It is pretty fun to drive. Much like my dad's awesome lawnmower. I actually got to drive it up onto the trailer to return it. That was nerve-wrecking, I was sure I was going to end up sideways in the middle of the street.

So here is an update on the master list:
  1. Tear up patio area. (Done!)
  2. "Reclaim" stone/concrete pieces to reuse. (Done!)
  3. Relocate plants. (Done!)
  4. Install gutters (Back is 95% Done!)
  5. Bust up concrete "troughs". (Done!)
  6. "Reclaim" patio flooring flagstones from garden. (Done!)
  7. Mark fence posts.
  8. Get samples and select pea gravel. (Done!)
  9. Rent equipment. (Done!)
  10. Move dirt. (Done!)
  11. Dig post holes.
  12. Trench for pipe and footing at new site wall and house.
  13. Pour footing.
  14. Install metal edging. (Done!)
  15. Install site wall reclaimed stone/concrete pieces.
  16. Place road bond gravel. (Done!)
  17. Compact gravel. (Done!)
  18. Lay reclaimed flooring flagstones.
  19. Install pea gravel.
  20. Install trench drains.
  21. Install fence posts and fence.



And so it begins....

6/3/11

The Bobcat has been served, the road-bond gravel is delivered.

 Let's make a patio!


Help. I'm melting.

6/1/11

So far the only drawback of quitting my job is that it is HOT here! We don't have AC like we did at my office. (Where someone would always turn it down to 58 degrees and I'd end up wearing a sweater and socks with my skirt all day.)
In general, the house stays really nice until around 1pm, when even the slightest exertion (like typing) or embarrassment (the mailman hearing me sing to the girls about diaper wedgies) can make me break out into a sweat that doesn't go away until about 3am.

So please help. I need a ceiling fan for the living room. Should I:
a)
buck up and buy the modern fan "ball" one? ~$275














http://www.modernfan.com/ball.html

b)
get a cheapo industrial one that is sure to cut off a finger? $70
(Actually, this is not even an option because it literally WILL chop off a finger. They are only recommended to be installed in tall ceiling spaces. Our ceiling is only about 8'-6" max.)


















http://www.csnlighting.com/Westinghouse-Lighting-78409-WL2110.html?cv=

c)
??
[insert your suggestion here].

THANKS!

 

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